About Gary

About Medium Gary Findlay 

From a young age, Gary felt drawn to the unseen world.

His first experiences with Spirit came through his family, when his great Auntie Cathy introduced him to a Spiritualist church.

It was there that Gary received his first message. One that would change his life, encouraging him to one day stand on the platform himself.

He joined a development circle soon after, beginning a lifelong journey of discovery that continues to this day.

Through years of practice, guidance from Spirit, and a deep trust in the unseen, Gary developed his own understanding of energy and consciousness, a teaching now known as the 9 Gates.

 A key influence in Gary’s spiritual path came through his wife Julie’s grandmother, Jeannie, a gifted trance medium who worked closely with Spirit.

Gary witnessed Jeannie slip into trance and allow her spirit guide to speak through her with grace and clarity.

This experience left a lasting impression, showing Gary the true depth of blending between the Spirit World and the physical world.

Under Spirit’s guidance, Gary began developing this same state within his own work, learning how to let Spirit blend through him while remaining aware.

These early experiences with Jeannie became the foundation of his later teachings on blending, stillness, and the living connection that forms the heart of the 9 Gates.

The Living Gate 

 Gary is known as The Living Gate. A channel through which Spirit blends directly into the physical world.

When working with others, he allows the energy to rise through his body and into the higher hemisphere of the mind, opening the Gate so that Spirit can blend through.

Those present can physically feel the energy move through their body, experiencing the presence of Spirit for themselves. 

 For Gary, this is not theory or performance,  it is real connection.

His work shows that the Spirit World is not separate from us, it moves through us, breathes with us, and continues to teach those willing to listen.

Teaching & the 9 Gates 

Spirit taught Gary the path of the 9 Gates, a step-by-step way of awakening the energy field within. Each Gate opens a deeper awareness of the Spirit World and brings the individual closer to their true self. Through breath, stillness and focused awareness, Gary helps others activate this energy, leading them to feel Spirit’s presence for themselves. His teachings are shared through workshops, development circles, one-to-one teaching and his books, including   Feel It: The Meditation Practice That Awakens Your Whole Being,   Breathe to Heal: Activate Your Energy Field and Awaken the Spirit Within,   The Hidden Journal: Feel, Breathe, Silence  and   The Hidden Game: Learning to Silence the Mind. 

A Message from Gary 

Spirit has always been my greatest teacher.

Everything I teach and everything I share has come through my own experiences of working with Spirit over the years. I have learned to trust what I feel, to quieten the mind and to allow Spirit to show me what is possible.

My purpose is not to tell people what they should believe. It is to give people the opportunity to experience Spirit for themselves.

The body is the medium. The language of Spirit is feeling.

 Where to Find Gary 

Closing Message 

Thank you for taking the time to read about my journey and my work with Spirit.

Everything I have shared comes from my own experiences over many years. I don't ask anyone simply to believe what I say. Experience it for yourself. Feel it, question it and discover what Spirit means to you.

For me, there is no separation. Spirit is around us, works through us and reminds us that life continues beyond the physical body.

Feel it for yourself. That is where the real understanding begins.

“When the mind falls silent, Spirit begins to speak.

In stillness, we remember who we are.”